Here comes Memorial Day and a 3-day holiday for everyone. Let us not forget that we need to remember our fallen soldiers in wars that have kept our nation free. That is the meaning of the Memorial Day Holiday.
Most of you it will be off work, relaxing and B-B-Q. For me, it means that for three days I don’t have to face that ugly radiation machine above, or carry a chemo pump attached to my chest for those three days. So, wherever we are in life, we all have different ways to celebrate.
The machine above is where I lay down 5 days a week in that light green body form of mine under the sheet. All that is to make sure the radiation is “right on” exactly in the same place so it doesn’t damage any other internal parts. I am now 19 done, 9 more to go. 67% finished. It has taken its toll on my energy and general well being. But I shall continue after this three day break and see it thru.
I can feel so many of you battling behind me and that truly helps to make these days more pleasant. I thank all of you for your warm thoughts and your prayers. It is impossible to reply to them all, but know I feel them in my heart. Cancer can play havoc on my body, but I will not let it break my spirit!
Cheers to all….. have a good long weekend.
First, a peaceful isolated village church in the spectacular Dolomites in Northern Italy. Brings me gentle memories of my times there.
Started again a new week of chemo/radiation sessions each day. Really a full day of medical meetings. And I could do none of this without the help & love of Connie & Byron. As most of you know, my best friend in the world (and we call each other brother & sister) Connie moved down here to Florida to help me survive this horrible disease. Connie, and her husband Byron, moved from their 5-bedroom home in Maryland to live in my two bedroom guest house and help me in so many ways. My love goes out to them each day as they keep me going to all the meetings, doing all the things to help at home, keeping my spirits going high and I just can’t say enough loving things about the sacrifice they have made. I love you both and thank you again here.
Today C & B drove me to my radiation treatment, then we waited so long for my chemo tube to be installed for this week. Then went to banks and finally to my G.I. specialist to discuss ways I can get to eating real food sometime soon instead of just the food tube. So we got home exhausted after this long long day.
Today was treatment number 15 of 28, so still have quite a few to go. I will keep plugging thru this, somehow keeping my energy level high enough.
Wish you all a great week.
On Friday, they cancelled my radiation because the machine was out. So, today I started again doing my 10th of 28 sessions of tough chemo & radiation at the same time. At the end of the week I should be half way thru.
Saw the oncologist doctor after the session and he says I look better than he thought I would look. He said in the next week or two I really should ‘hit the wall’ with energy & strength and feel worse. How’s that for positive thoughts for a positive thinking guy?!
I asked him when I would be able to test to see how this all has done to the tumor and my stomach, etc. He said we may not know until a month or more AFTER the 28 sessions. That is not what I wanted to hear, but it is what it is. He said I may still lose some more weight because this is tough stuff. This is not for the meek for sure.
So I keep my head up, keep going in for these sessions and resting whenever I can. Keep this prayers coming as I need them. I send hugs to all you.
I will explain this photo below.
Today I finished my 7th Chemo/Radiation combined treatment. That gets me 7/28 done, or 25% finished. That is how I get thru these on a positive note — one at a time!
The side effects seem to be just more energy going away …. I seem more tired. But I have not thrown up or really had nausea. I hope that continues. It is a battle indeed for anyone that has had cancer. I am keeping my head up and my mind as positive as I can be. I am just hoping that my stomach improves as these progress and I can eat again!
The photo above… let me explain about it now. Most of my career people have always asked if I have shot for National Geographic. The truth be told, NG has purchased many of my images over the years as stock for the magazines, and I have been asked numerous times to shoot on assignment for them. I do have the upmost respect for the NG brand and look at it often, but I have always turned down the shooting assignments. For two main reasons: first, they pay about 1/10th of what advertising travel campaigns pay me to shoot ($300 a day compared to $3000 often), and even more importantly, is the issue of ownership & usage. If I shot for NG direct, they would own the copyright and that was far too important for me to give up with all my stock agents selling my images around the world that I own that copyright, simply because I did not give it up to any client.
But that doesn’t mean I don’t often shoot for advertising clients (tourism boards, airlines, cruises, travel companies, etc) in a style that would be very similar to NG. I strive always to be close & intimate with my travel images and make the viewer feel he/she is right there experiencing it also. This Chinese farmer and oxen is a good example. I shot from really low – with probably an 11mm lens – so that you feel you can touch, perhaps even smell this field and oxen. If so, I have been successful.
Thought I would share this image I love with you on my 1/4 done day! Cheers…
Well, I have 5 sessions over with this new combined radiation & chemo procedure. It is in the books. Only 23 more sessions to go.
Is it easy…. NO! I usually come right home and sleep for several hours. And they say it will get tougher. I am trying to be ready for all that it offers for sure.
Photo is “BIG RAD” …. the high powered radiation machine that I meet each day from M-F. Not a pretty thing and she makes a lot of strange sounds. I can only hope she is doing her thing well inside my pancreas.
I have the weekend off from both! Woppee! Now if only I could have a sandwich or a drink! But I will keep on trucking! Have a great weekend everyone. Cheers….
First, let me share some joy with all of you. As I drove out of my driveway towards the street on my way to the hospital. I spotted this home-made sign that some dear friend(s) made for me today as I start this radiation/chemo fight. It was so wonderful and touched my heart…. I know I have people that are caring, but this was special! I wish I knew who did it… called several and they said “no”. It is so special to me as I progress this next journey.
Went to hospital for first radiation and it took 2 hours (rather than the 20 minutes each day they told me). Then up to get fitted for a “chemo bag” that will slowly let chemo in each hour for 5 days at a time, then they remove each Friday afternoon, Will have to get used to sleeping with that.
Bad news tho … instead of 15 chemo/sessions for three weeks, they have changed it to 28 sessions over 5 1/2 weeks (off Sat & Sun). So it will be longer than I thought, but they are going milder than they were going to for a longer time.
I’ll do it and work my hardest to think positive each day. The positive mind is the best one. And thank you again, whoever hung that sign. I sure hope I find out who did it! Cheers….